Hira meka e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio e pā ana ki Teití i roto i te Filipaini whaiaronga o te whakaaro

Me te kore, ake, ake tawai te melo o te utuafare

i roto i te Philippines, te iti, ki runga-ki raro,"Y"whenua i roto i te Tonga AsiaA, no te ahau i te kotahi tekau ma wha, ka neke ahau ki te new York, a ko pau ki te kitea te toenga i waenganui i aku tikanga, me te hou, unknown ahurea Western. Wāhanga o tēnei American whakawhenumi, tae atu ki te Teití. Te nuinga Filipinos ("Whare wife"), rite ahau, ahu ki te tatari mo to tatou mutunga o te tīmatanga rānei o te Taiohi ki te rā, no te mea i tatou i tupu ake whakapono e te utuafare a to tatou i te ako i haere mai i te tuatahi.

No, te reira noa te ara e kai koe

(I tēnei awhina i ahau te haere ki te girls school, na, ko te whakamatautauranga, ko te tino iti.

Engari ka meatia e ahau te mutunga tīmata Teiti toku hoa? he kore-te taata Philipino, e hiahiatia ana e ia ki te matau i te tahi mea: ko tētahi uara ahurea e Filipinos e whakakake o te he"te utuafare i te kotahitanga.Philipino i te mau utuafare, me te nuinga o Āhia i te mau utuafare i roto i te Whānui he tino tata."Tangata katoa i runga i te papa Tākaro ki te whakaara i te tamaiti mai i ōna tūpuna ki te godparents, me noho tata.

Mua, Philipino faahoaraa mau kau he tamaiti i te raveraa i te atawhai mo te kotiro o te utuafare (te mau mai i te wai, te whakatika i te ururuatia te tuanui, etc.) ka rite ki te tinana tohu o to koutou aroha ki a ia me tōna whānau.

Whānau ko te mea tino nui ki a tatou, i te tahi taime noa atu nui ki a tatou. Na, ka rite ki te Spice Girls mea: ki te hiahia koe ki te waiho i tona aroha, whai koe ki te haere ki a ia hoa, me te utuafare.

Kua hoki matou Filipinos nei i te mea: ki te hiahia koe ki te tango i te tiaki o te kotiro, te tango i te tiaki o te whaea."E whakapono ki ahau. Te mahi i te reira.

Rite hohoro rite i ahau te pakeke, ka korerotia e toku whaea ki ahau,"e kore Tatou e tiaki e aha te rōpū matawaka no ia ki no ia rite te mea i ia te Katorika.Mai haere mai tatou i te tino, me te momo Katorika Roma whenua, te nuinga Filipinos ahu ki te whakatau ki te mau Katorika hararei, he mātātoa i roto i te Ekalesia, usury, me te whakapono whakaaturanga o te tahei ripeka, hei tauira.

I te wa ano, e mohio ana ahau e te tahi mau Filipinos, ahakoa o ahakoa i to ratou ētahi atu tino te iwi no ki tetahi karakia ranei e kore e te tāutu i tetahi karakia. Engari kia tupato, ara, ki te ratou, i o ratou hapu, e kore e tiaki, kia puta ki te te tūpato. A, no toku whanaunga i te interracial hononga tuatahi i kawea e ratou te hunga i aroha ki to tatou whare, ko koe tonu ia taupokina iho e te nui o te kai toku whaea, e taea te tunu i roto i te rua ra (Ae, i te rua. Te kai te mea nui) I reira te kahore he oranga i te karaoke mīhini. I te Philipino whānau me whai i te iti rawa i te kotahi (no te mea rerekē waiata tōrua). Na, ki te koe i karangatia ki te rōpū, me te katoa, ko te inu, me te waiata, te tatarahapa nei au, engari e kore e taea e koe te tiki atu i te hopuoro. to tatou i te kaha ki te waiata Ko te takatu te hunga i te hiahia i roto i te Teití ahau i kite i te wero a, no te kitea e ratou i roto i ahau i whakaora i ahau, mo te faaipoiporaa. Ratou whakaaro i ratou e nehenehe e āta hoatu te pēhanga ki runga ki ahau, a whati i ahau ki raro, otiia Filipinos ahau tupu ake i runga i te whakapono e sex ko te hoki ki te tangata e whakamahere koe ki te noho i te toenga o to outou oraraa ki (i to tatou Katorika karakia hoki whai wāhi i roto i tēnei). O te akoranga, i te tahi Filipinos ahu ki te kia iti iho te moepuku momo atu i ētahi atu, engari ara ka pea ratou hiahia e kore e ki te kōrero nuitia e pā ana ki to ratou wheako fakasekisualé.